Creating order in the chaos

My alarm went off at 4am. I hopped out of bed, used the bathroom, then sneaked into the kitchen to make my coffee.

Today is a new day, with a new schedule. Yesterday in Living Well Spending Less, Ruth talked about creating a schedule to help create habits. The point of creating the schedule is so that you do the same things every morning until they become a mindless habit. I wake up early, but by mid day I am drained and have no energy left to do much of anything. The author talked about this same problem – she states that creating a schedule that she can do mindlessly in the morning saves some brain power so that she has more energy for longer in the day. This idea sounds amazing, and could be my saving grace for the duration of this pregnancy.

The days are long, and my patience are worn down to a tiny sliver of a nub by time 5pm rolls around – cooking dinner & bed time are exhausting and turn me into a little bit of a Monster.

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It seems hard to imagine, I suppose – but as a work from home Mom, my days are slam packed. I work every free minute I have, of course there is some mindless facebook scrolling, which I really should cut out – but I justify it by saying that I can’t possibly work every single second, it’s my life, and I should at least enjoy some of it. But the thing is, scrolling facebook really isn’t even all that enjoyable. There is nothing but bad news there, and it makes me feel more guilty than anything else. It’s just one of those habits that I’ve created that I haven’t broken yet. The best thing I’ve done recently, is turn off my facebook feed in my google chrome browser, which is my most used browser. I’ve only done this on my laptop, but I’m going to install it on my desktop as well.

This may seem pointless because you could just turn it back on, that’s true, but from what I can tell it takes more than a few seconds to uninstall and turn your feed back on, so for now, it’s done it’s job to keep me from scrolling to much on my laptop.

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I’m hopeful that imposing a schedule will help me feel more organized, and less spastic. I’ve been struggling with motivation since I got back from Nashville. July was a great month for my business, but since I got back I’ve felt all out whack & off kilter.  To be honest, I’ve really had to re-evaluate what my priorities are & what was causing me the most stress & heartache.

Creating a schedule with such a tight timeline allows me to focus & keeps me from wandering all over the place. A simple task, such as writing this blog post, could take me over an hour if I allowed it. I would wander around from website to website, then come back to the post, write a few sentences, then check my email, check my online business office, get more coffee, check out what’s new on pinterest, come back the post, rinse/repeat. You know the drill, you’re probably familiar with it yourself. This is creating chaos in my life. I simply don’t have the extra time in my day for simple tasks to take 2-3x longer than they need to take.

Ruth issued this challenge to me (not me personally, but in her book, you know what I’m saying, right?):

what would happen if you spent the next week writing down every single thing you did? 

Would you find that your time log matched your priorities?

What would happen if someone else were to observe how you use your time? Would your long term vision be immediately apparent? Does the way you use our time clearly reflect what is most important to you? 

Do our choices match our calling, our vision, goals, passions & dreams?” 

Phew, that got me thinking….. and made me feel guilty for the way I waste time during my day. It lit a fire under my hiney to get more organized and more intentional about my day.

I’ll end with this quote from William Penn,

“Time is what we want most but what we use worst.”

 

Until next time,

Jena

Living Well Spending Less

Life has been weird lately; I can’t really pin point what it is, but I feel like I’m constantly on the struggle bus & being pulled in a million different directions. My life raft is losing air and I’m kicking, kicking, kicking, but I’m barely making it to the surface.

After a particularly horrible day with Paisley, I bought this book, Living Well Spending Less, by Ruth Soukup. I laughed through the first 30 pages, because Ruth described me to a T. It was like she was talking to me, about me.

I have been thinking a lot about starting to blog again – I know, I’ve said this a few times before. But one of the things I’ve figured out recently is that while I might wake up early to work out & get a little reading in, that is the only “me” time I get, and it’s not fulfilling me like I want. I love working out, don’t get me wrong, and I will continue to do so for as long as I can during this pregnancy. But I need more – I don’t know how I’m going to possibly fit blogging into my day, but I am.

I actually do enjoy writing; I find it to be therapeutic. I don’t always have these super deep thoughts, with super deep meaning. But my thoughts are my own, and I think putting them down will be good for me (and scary because this IS a public forum).

The author issued this challenge at the end of Part One: Secret #3 –

“Spend some time thinking about your dreams and passions. What is it that you love to do most of all? What makes you jump out of bed in the morning, or rush home from work just so you can have a little more time for it. If you could do only one thing right now, what would it be? Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t quite gathered the nerve to try?

Next spend some time listening to the whispers of holy discontentment in your life. Is there something in your life that isn’t quite right? Do you have a feeling you are on the wrong path? What would it take to make a change?

Finally, consider your own gifts & talents. What are your real areas of expertise? What are you good at? What do you most enjoy? What is your sweet spot?
Ignite that spark within you and give yourself permission to try, to leap in with both feet, even if it means risking failure.” -Ruth Soukup, Living Well Spending Less

fail by default

Ruth issues a challenge at the end of every “secret.” I’m going to be blogging through those challenges over the next few weeks, I think. That’s the plan anyways.

But for now, I have to go, Paisley just woke up – It’s time to get our day started.

Until next time,

Jena